So she quit working to make sense of things– we don’t realise it, but it’s hard work we do almost every waking moment, building out thoughts and memories and actions around time, things that happened yesterday, and things that are happening right now, and what’s coming tomorrow, layering all of that simultaneously and holding it in balance. Helen Oyeyemi
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The idea that we no longer need to work hard to make sense of things is a common misconception. To believe that work is no longer needed to make sense of things is to be out of touch with reality. The truth is that we are always working, whether we are aware of it or not. We are always making sense of the world around us, whether it’s through our memories, experiences, hopes and dreams, or our thoughts.

If the world was perfect, it would be possible to take shortcuts and skip all of the hard parts. But it doesn’t work like that. Whether you want to admit it or not, you still have to work hard at making sense of your life.

The only difference is that you can do it on your own terms, wherever you are in the world.

Source: Mr. Fox

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